Anonym: Hi, I'm just gonna comment on your valentines post. I understand where youre coming from about the slim images on tumblr, but my girlfriend (who I believe is beautiful the way she is) is a bit bigger, and I would gladly post photos of us together, but she would not be confident with that when she's not happy with herself. Many girls that aren't thin wouldn't feel comfortable with their photo being posted, it's not a matter of people not wanting to see bigger girls, it's if they want to be seen

I completely understand, and I am sorry that she (or anyone else) feels that way. I don’t like my picture being taken that much either because of the esteem I have of myself. Think about it though…why do you think she feels uncomfortable? You have photo after photo, burden after burden thrown at girls and women who aren’t the same size the media portrays to be attractive. It bombards you and makes you feel as if you aren’t attractive enough or good enough. That could have a lot to do with why she feels uncomfortable. I don’t know your girlfriend, so I could be very wrong (please correct me if I am.) I just know that although you have to find good self-esteem within yourself, it also doesn’t help that the majority of photos that you see are of thinner women (and even men!) 


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